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Member Section => Prayer Requests => Topic started by: PegLeg45 on July 28, 2009, 02:47:55 PM
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I would like to ask for prayers for my wife Amy as we move forward into the unknown. We will be consulting later this week with an oncologist to see what the diagnosis and treatment is for her. The tentative pre-diagnosis from a CT scan is lymphoma (cancer of the lymph nodes).
We have much hope, as all cases are individual and different. A gentleman at our church just celebrated one year cancer-free after a stage four diagnosis and an old friend from the church that my grandfather preached at thirty years ago just celebrated his tenth year cancer-free after a late-stage lymphoma diagnosis.
Thanks to all,
Chuck
(PegLeg)
I would like to take the opportunity to share a scripture from Psalms that has always been a favorite of mine to go to:
Psalm 25
1 Unto thee, O LORD, do I lift up my soul.
2 O my God, I trust in thee: let me not be ashamed, let not mine enemies triumph over me.
3 Yea, let none that wait on thee be ashamed: let them be ashamed which transgress without cause.
4 Shew me thy ways, O LORD; teach me thy paths.
5 Lead me in thy truth, and teach me: for thou art the God of my salvation; on thee do I wait all the day.
6 Remember, O LORD, thy tender mercies and thy lovingkindnesses; for they have been ever of old.
7 Remember not the sins of my youth, nor my transgressions: according to thy mercy remember thou me for thy goodness' sake, O LORD.
8 Good and upright is the LORD: therefore will he teach sinners in the way.
9 The meek will he guide in judgment: and the meek will he teach his way.
10 All the paths of the LORD are mercy and truth unto such as keep his covenant and his testimonies.
11 For thy name's sake, O LORD, pardon mine iniquity; for it is great.
12 What man is he that feareth the LORD? him shall he teach in the way that he shall choose.
13 His soul shall dwell at ease; and his seed shall inherit the earth.
14 The secret of the LORD is with them that fear him; and he will shew them his covenant.
15 Mine eyes are ever toward the LORD; for he shall pluck my feet out of the net.
16 Turn thee unto me, and have mercy upon me; for I am desolate and afflicted.
17 The troubles of my heart are enlarged: O bring thou me out of my distresses.
18 Look upon mine affliction and my pain; and forgive all my sins.
19 Consider mine enemies; for they are many; and they hate me with cruel hatred.
20 O keep my soul, and deliver me: let me not be ashamed; for I put my trust in thee.
21 Let integrity and uprightness preserve me; for I wait on thee.
22 Redeem Israel, O God, out of all his troubles.
I would also like to share a prayer that I found framed and hanging in a room at the Carl Vinson VA Hospital in Dublin, Georgia.
I first read it on one of our many trips taking my father-in-law to a doctors visit. The true power of the prayer didn't really sink in until I took the time to copy it down on paper and then re-read it one morning at 3:00 AM.
Confederate Soldier's Prayer
(written by an anonymous confederate soldier, US civil war)
I asked God for strength, that I might achieve,
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey.
I asked God for health, that I might do greater things,
I was given infirmity, that I might do better things.
I asked for riches, that I might be happy,
I was given poverty, that I might be wise.
I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men,
I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God.
I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life,
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things.
I got nothing that I asked for - but everything I had hoped for.
Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered.
I am among men, most richly blessed.
Found on the body of a valiant Southern soldier, 1861-1865
Known but to God
Here is a good Bible source on the web, for those interested:
http://www.biblegateway.com/versions/New-International-Version-NIV-Bible/
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Done.
Best wishes on the tests, hopefully it was just fly turds on the film.
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Will remember you and her in prayers
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Peg, Keeping your wife Amy, you and your family in my prayers.
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I got ya covered here, my friend.
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Chuck:
You and Amy are, and will remain, in my prayers. If you need anything, please let me know.
Tom
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You know you got it brother.
Praying for you both.
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Thoughts and prayers for you,Amy and the boys.
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PegLeg,
You and Amy are in our prayers, always! You and I know the strength of spirit that exists in people and I'm sure your wife is strong beyond belief. You be strong for her as she was for you my friend!
Best of luck and keep us informed.....
Timmy
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My dad lived many years with lymphoma. It remitted, came back, got treatment and remitted a few times.
My prayers for Amy for many many many healthy years with her family on Earth.
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Ditto what everyone else said.
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Peg my prayers are there. If you you don't mind posting or PMing me a first name I will light a candle. May the Lord bewith you.
Jay
FQ13
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Many are with you Peg. My wife is a breast cancer survivor over 10 years now. Sentinel lymph nodes were biopsied, lumpectomy performed, chemo and radiation after. No cancer since. She had people she knew and didn't know pray. What a concept to the power of faith.
This is a small prayer we used to read together:
Heavenly Father, You are intimately aware of the struggle I am experiencing -- the pain and the despair. You know the desire of my heart to be healed of this illness. I ask now for Your healing touch. I know that You are able and that just like in Bible times, You can heal me.
“I also understand that You will chose what is best for me. I pray that through this trial, I will draw close to You -- that You will be my comfort and strength. I pray that ultimately, whatever happens, You will be glorified through me. I pray this in Jesus’ name, amen.”
Keep the Faith Peg. You and Amy are certainly never alone.
God Bless
TW
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Done
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Thanks to everyone for the good words...it means a lot.
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aww Shit mate
I am sorry to hear,
My thoughts go to your Mrs, Your self and the rest of the Family while you all go through this tough time mate
Phil....
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hey Peg,
I hadn't read through all the posts for awhile and got to this a little late. You and yours are definitely in our prayers here in St. Pete Fl. hope it turns out well.
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Peg this has lead to a GREAT thing, a prayer list, multiple prayers from many people, it is my priviledge and duty to pray for Amy , not to mention my pleasure. Amy get well and Peg I want to pray for your strength, it is important, although you probably don't need it. Been there in my recent past, and prayers work, wife in not only ICU, but isolation, 26 days, got myself together, and prayed the rosary everyday, ( I know some of you might not like that ) but she is with me still, not like she was, but she has a life as long as I'm around, Keep steady my friend and do not hesitate to call or ask on the forum. We are friends, even though we have not met.
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Thanks heaps, guys.
And, meeting you folks is something I hope I can do sometime down the road.
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I will light a green candle of healing for Amy and add my prayer to it.
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Peg, don't know what to say except...You, your wife and family will never walk alone...there will always be "footprints in the sand"
Richard
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We're on it, Peg. You are never alone.
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Thanks again guys.
Well, now we know where we stand and what the path is. We just have to follow the path.
Just an update on Amy's status.
First of all, it is Hodgkins Lymphoma and they are saying it is stage 2 or 3. The oncologist was upbeat and very optimistic for good treatment results. She said of all the types of cancer out there, this was one of the most treatable.
Things are moving quicker than normal (we are actually about 2 weeks ahead of normal procedure). They usually don't get into treatment this quick. But the speed of action is not related to the type of cancer, just quick paperwork and good scheduling.
Went to have pulmonary and heart echo tests done today to make sure she can tolerate the chemo because due to her young age they want to use the aggressive batch of drugs.
She will have a consult with the surgeons next Tuesday, and they will both put an IV port in her upper chest and at the same time go ahead and do a bone marrow biopsy (standard procedure) at the same time since she will already be there.
If all goes well next Wednesday, they will go ahead and start chemo treatments Thursday morning. Right now the treatment protocol will be every other Thursday (unless something changes) for 8 to 10 treatments, so this will be ongoing for the next 3 to 4 months.
Thanks to everyone for all the prayers and well-wishes.
Please continue to pray for Amy to make a complete recovery.
Peg
(Chuck)
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Thanks for the update Peg. Continued in our prayers and God speed.
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We're right here with you, Peg and Amy.
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That's GREAT news Peg! I'm keeping you both in my prayers. Keep your chin up and put your faith in the Big Guy !
God Bless you both!
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Hang in there PegLeg!
Amy has lots of folks wishing her a quick recovery. Let us know if we can do more!
God Bless you both!
tim
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Hey Peg, when my wife went through chemo, there was concerns that the chemo would cause appetite and queasy upset stomach symptoms. My wife took Marinol. It is a synthetic THC: Since red blood cell levels will be monitored and need to stay elevated, my wife and I ate fresh spinach every day through chemo. Her levels actually went up. and its LEGAL.
Regards to Marinol, it increased her appetite, and her blood work was spot on throughout the whole process. She maintained her job, and worked through the followup radiation. Her immune system needs to stay at 100%.
Here's a link as an option.
http://www.solvaypharmaceuticals-us.com/products/marinolproductinformation/0,998,12413-2-0,00.htm
Women are tougher,when it comes to things like this, I don't know why but its true.
No one goes to their second chemo treatment with hair. It's a fact, I was in denial about it, until it started to fall out. My wife's daughters came down, and she went and got the GI Jane, and "do rags", bandanas,,etc,.." She has a good looking head and it is no big deal. PLUS it grows back.
Be sure to find out which drug is used for the chemo,, my wife was on cytoxan and another I have to ask her.
Technology and the amounts per session are changing all the time.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do, my wife has also been a nurse for over 25 years, now just does Legal Nurse Consulting, and Life Care Planning, with some critical case management from our home.
My wife is 10 years cancer free.
You and Amy will continue to be in our prayers.
God Bless.
TW
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Women are tougher,when it comes to things like this, I don't know why but its true.
Women have to be tougher. They live with US!
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I have a nephew with stage four of the same cancer, so I will be sure and add Peg's name to my prayer list. I know it is scary, but like the doctor said, it is one of the more treatable cancers, and with good success rates.
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Thanks for the update, Chuck.
You both will be in my thoughts and prayers, over the next couple of months.
Alf
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This certainly sounds like a problem with a God-sized solution. Amy's healers will do the best they can, guided by God's directions and plans for Amy, you and all of us. Never miss the opportunity to be a witness for His grace and love in your lives.
Amy, you and her doctors are on my prayer list, Chuck. Bless you all.
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Hey Amy, Chuck!
Just keep going. We were there, we still are even with the bad thing gone quite some time ago.
Hope she goes shooting with you, puts one mind at ease. :)
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Hey Chuck,
I just got to this thread. I'm sorry to hear about Amys diagnosis, but it is very treatable.
The Mediport insertion is a minor procedure and it will make chemo delivery much easier. Hang in there during the standard pre-chemo testing. I am happy to hear about the fast track treatment and I believe that it shows that all of the prayers sent your way are already working.
Toms suggestion for Marinol, if needed, is an excellent one, as is his suggestion of fresh spinach salads.
You know how important prayer and positive outlook are and I know that both you and Amy have more than enough positive thinking and the prayers for you are limitless. It is very obvious that your support for each other is also limitless and that you have a beautiful bond.................that will also take you through anything. Just quit having reasons to prove it to each other after this one, OK? :)
If there is anything at all that we can do, don't hesitate to ask.
I am adding you to my churchs prayer list tomorrow and I will continue to keep you both in my prayers.
Hang in there and God bless you both.
Dave
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Thanks everyone.
This is one of those things that allows us to reflect on the past, present, and future and see what we have to be thankful for. My family has been blessed many times, and hopefully it is God's will that we will continue to be blessed.
I know the next few months are not going to be smooth sailing, but in the grand scheme of things (or the big picture, if you will) I also know that there are many other people in the world worse off at this same time than we are.
This is just one of those speed bumps in life that takes a little more work to get over than normal. But once you get over it, you're a much stronger person than before. Like Amy always says, when you think you have it bad, just look around and you can always be humbled by someone that needs even more prayer and support.
We are both so grateful to have the emotional support of so many friends and family right now.
Amy knew that I was a member of this forum and had looked around on here a few times and knew I had a good many friends on here that I am fond of.
She was moved deeply when I told her how many of you all had expressed words of encouragement, prayers, and well-wishes for her (and the family). She was moved even more as she read this thread.
Again, thank you all for the prayers and emotional support.
Peg
(Chuck)
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Just an update:
So far, Amy is handling the treatment well.....they are giving really good anti-nausea medications.
The doctor said that we would be able to see a noticeable decrease in the swollen lymph nodes early on, because the chemo works aggressively, and he was right. After only one treatment, the swollen nodes in her neck and under her arm have decreased in size enough that you can actually see a difference.
She continues to feel tired (she said it feels like she's worked in the yard all day in the heat) but that is supposed to be normal, we were told.
Tomorrow marks day seven from her first treatment and begins the four day period when her white blood count is at its lowest point after the treatment. This is the time period when she really has to watch what she eats and who she is around due to the potential for infection or catching something from someone else. We go to the doctor tomorrow for follow-up blood tests and they have a 'booster shot' to help up the white count and maybe make her have more energy.
Then we get to start over again next week.
We know in our hearts that your prayers are working, and we both thank you all.
Amy & Chuck
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Peg,
When you go out to the Dr have your Lady wear a face mask to help prevent catching anything. She may feel 'weird' about it but now is no time to take chance.
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Peg,
When you go out to the Dr have your Lady wear a face mask to help prevent catching anything. She may feel 'weird' about it but now is no time to take chance.
They told her she may have to do that as the treatment process goes on because it wears the immune system down so much, even with the booster shots.
We have a supply of masks just for that......
They even said that I might want to wear one when we come back...........................................
............................................................................but I don't think that has anything to do with my wife though. :-\ ;D
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Glad to hear about the improvement. Is Georgia one of the States that allows Medical Pot ? (the M word is to hard to spell ;D ) The primary advantage claimed for it is it's anti nausea properties with no side effects (except munchies ).
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Glad to hear about the improvement. Is Georgia one of the States that allows Medical Pot ? (the M word is to hard to spell ;D ) The primary advantage claimed for it is it's anti nausea properties with no side effects (except munchies ).
Don't really know if it is or not..........don't think so.
But if the stuff does work, I have an outlaw b-i-l that might possibly be the least nauseated man in Georgia. ;D
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I'm glad to hear about your wife. Hang there Peg. I know y'all have been through alot. I'm keeping you both in my prayers.
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They told her she may have to do that as the treatment process goes on because it wears the immune system down so much, even with the booster shots.
We have a supply of masks just for that......
They even said that I might want to wear one when we come back...........................................
............................................................................but I don't think that has anything to do with my wife though. :-\ ;D
Put the big smiley sticker on your mask.
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Peg,
Sounds like the stuff is working if she is feeling like crap. Don't you just hate cures like that?
When my mother went through her's they gave her a book that talked about eating fresh fruit and yogurt, and about foods and things to avoid. She followed that as strictly as her Bible, and she did very well. When a friend of her's was strugling with the side affects mom gave her the book, and the advice made a difference.
Did they give Amy a booklet like that or any counseling on these things? If so ... Follow the advice. If not ... Ask for the info!
Just the same we will continue to pray for both comfort and cure.
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Did they give Amy a booklet like that or any counseling on these things? If so ... Follow the advice. If not ... Ask for the info!
Yes....we have a foot-high stack of books on what to do and what not to do. things such as not eating salads unless you make it at home and can wash everything including (especially) the lettuce. No buffet food due to the serving tongs being handled by too many different people and such. Only fresh fruit and vegetables that can be peeled and washed.
We will do whatever we have to do to get over the mountain.
Thanks.
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Not lettuce,... spinach,,......lots of it.
Kefir is great, kinda like a milk/yogurt comes in different all natural flavors, no fake stuff in it. High in protein.
Remind her to take care of her teeth, rinsing with lemon water after eating, and really focus on keeping the teeth in good shape.
Chemo is hard on teeth.
But you BOTH will get over the mountain.
Ruth (the wife), and I are keeping you both in our prayers.
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Glad to hear she's doin O.K.
Chemo now isn't anywhere near as bad as it used to be. They have come a long way in improving the effectiveness while decreasing the side effects. I know that won't help your wife while she feels like crap. ;)
Also, don't let her try to be a martyr or anything. If she has side effects, tell her to take the meds for them. The meds they use to stimulate blood cell production can cause bone pain, so keep an eye on that, too.
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Thanks guys....good info.
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My prayers are with Amy and you.
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Prayers are with ya dude. I had an uncle who died a few years ago from cancer of the liver and lymph nodes.
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Well, I guess I'm gonna have to get the razor out........... Amy's hair has started to slowly let go. She went yesterday and got it cut relatively short, at least by her standard (shortest I ever seen it in 12 years). The nurse said it could actually be painful as it starts to turn loose, and that sometimes cutting it ahead of it falling out (preemptive strike ?) can alleviate the discomfort. She says when it really starts coming out, she's just gonna shave it off and be done with it.
So, I said I'd skin mine down too, but can't get much shorter on the sides and back than it is now....and there's only about an inch on top.....but it'll be gone......don't know about the beard, though.....might be too much to take all at once.
Might post pics, but y'all might not be able to handle it.....even if the camera can get past the glare.
Otherwise, things basically are going OK, Amy feels pretty good right now, but we hit a minor bump in the treatment cycle this week. We went for treatment #2 Thursday morning and after they got her all hooked up and pulled a blood sample, the test showed her white blood cell count was way down to around 700. They can't give her the chemo unless it is 1500 or higher.
Last week it was 2200, so that shows the type of effect the chemo has on the system.
They can give her a shot called 'Nu-Lasta' (sp ?) but it has to be given the day after chemo. It is to help build up the white blood count or keep it from going so low the next time.
When it gets that low, they told her not to be out and about very much in public areas and to watch who she came into contact with.
So....we will wait until next Thursday to let her blood build back on its own so she can take the chemo first and then get the nu-lasta shot and then it should be back on schedule.
As always, thanks for the multitude of prayers and good wishes.
Peg
(Chuck)
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More prayers for Amy.
And for you not to show the shaved head! ;D
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Not that it makes it any easier, but it sounds like many experiences I hear of treatments.
Hang in there, we're with you the best we can be!
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Spoke to the Nurse Wife, and the Nuetrophills will get higher with Nulasta. she should also be getting Kefir. Those yogurt/milkshake concoctions from the grocery/health food store. Very high in protein, and will calm the stomach.
Amy needs to be careful out in public as she is immuno-suppressed. Spinach, spinach, spinach.. Washed very well.
Keep everything clean around her.
My wife also complained of an odd almost painful feeling as her hair was coming out. Finally got the GI Jane and got it over with.
She got some "do" rags, and looked like a gypsy for a while. No big deal.
IT GROWS BACK! Not to worry.
Chemo is tough on even the good parts of the body, dental care is really important also.
As others said, we're with you. In prayers and thoughts. You both hang in there!
God Bless you Both.
TW
You and Amy hang in there.
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Keep hanging in there.
Has Amy considered donating her hair to "Locks of Love" or some such group before loosing all her hair? Some chemo recipients choose to go this route, helps them take back some of the control they feel they are losing. Not you though, nobody wants your beard. ;D
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Howdy Chuck,
I've been away for a few days and I just got to this thread. I continue to keep you and Amy in my prayers and you are still on the prayer list at our church.
I understand about immunosupression (I have multiple autoimmune disorders and as a result I am very highly immunosupressed.....as much as anyone can be and my multiple immunosupressants are being administered experimentally. I also take a chemo agent).
I agree with the mask usage, however I did not notice anyone mentioning hand washing. Hand washing is even more important, as most problems are transmitted by contact, rather than being airborne. Keep household surfaces clean with disinfectant wipes. Keep Purell handy for use after Amy comes in contact with public surfaces. Open doors for her and use Purell yourself after your contact with public surfaces. Hang in there and be cautious but not paranoid. When washing your hands, remember the old standby and sing "Happy Birthday" twice to guarantee adequate hand washing time.
TW has again given superb advise. I heartily agree with everhthing that he has said.
The hair loss is temporary and your support is awesome. I am sure Amy will come through with flying colors. You guys are such a wonderful team. God bless you and keep you both.
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Use the Purell or other hand sanitizers with aloe, easier on the skin long-term.
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We're with ya Amy and Peg!
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Tell her to keep fighting.
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It's like you say Peg; " It's just a bump in the road". Keep thinking positive. Our hearts and prayers are with you both ! Keep us posted.
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Tell her to keep hanging in there, she'll be complaining in NO time that she "needs to get her bangs trimmed".
(only pass that on if she will see the humor in it)
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Prayers from friends, strength and love from you! Can't go wrong!
Hang in there Amy!
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She thinks you guys are great........
+1 on the Purell......we have three giant bottles and we all carry a pocket-size bottle on us at all times.
Big supply of Lysol wipes and such stuff as needed to constantly keep clean.
Dentist prescribed a new toothpaste that they say does well for chemo patients.
Her hair wasn't long enough for Locks of Love to begin with....and now my gray beard is longer than her hair. The tingling and scalp discomfort is worse, so the GI Jane thing may be around the corner (she has maintained that outcome all along).
Thanks all for the good info.....
And all my DRTV family stays in our prayers as well........... because we are not the only folks with struggles.
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Forgot to mention the Purell and Lysol wipes. My uncle and his wife went through the same thing. All is well and I hope for you and your wife also. Met with a friend in high school who got diagnosed with cancer and had to shave her head. She asked that I be there with her and I was. I wore a mohawk the last year and a half in high school and she knew that I did not have a issue shaving my head. So she asked me to help and be there. Brings tears to your eyes but you have to stay strong for them. I must say I had a hard time driving to the next county to my home cause I could not see through the tears.
Take care of your wife Pegleg as I am sure you will. We will continue the support with our prayers.
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I and my wife are here for you and Amy, both in our prayers, I know your strong,,,, but we are here if you need us. This is a time to be strong, but not alone, and both of you are not alone, but definitely strong, do not hesitate to reach out. Pm, email or call, we are here or there as you need us.
God Bless
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So,Peg... How is our sexy lady doing? (Bald chicks are HOT!.....OK I'm a little perverted ;D )
I honestly do talk to the man about her every day. (Can't say if He listens)
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We are battling cancer in our family as well , God Bless and keep both of you. prayers for you friend.
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We are battling cancer in our family as well , God Bless and keep both of you. prayers for you friend.
I give you crap on other stuff, but you have my best wishes on that 2How.
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Peg,
Just now finding this thread! (Don't Ask) Your wife, you and your family will be my prayers as well. May God give you the grace and strength to continue to face this head on and with as much humor and peace as you can.
2HOW, the same goes for your family as well.
Sorry for the late words. :(
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I'll add you to the list 2how. Take care
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I'll add you to the list 2how. Take care
2How added.
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2How added.
Me too. 2How your family will be in my prayers. Would you kindly provide a first name?
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We pray that all in this family have the strength and the Lord's peace in facing adversity.
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We are battling cancer in our family as well , God Bless and keep both of you. prayers for you friend.
it sux big time
we have had our battles with it in the past, something i hate hearing about...
My thoughts with you mate
Peg, how is everything going with the cook bloke
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How is Amy doing?
Been quiet for a while, and hoping all is well!
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How is Amy doing?
Been quiet for a while, and hoping all is well!
Doing OK, thanks........ kind of getting back into a routine after some hang-ups in the very beginning.
We've been busy for the last few weeks getting ready for the new granddaughter and focusing on some home repairs and such things that needed to get done on the property and I haven't taken the time to post an update.
Amy's handling the chemo pretty well, still no major nausea and we're thankful for that. It's the booster shot for her immune system that is making her feel like crap. It makes her feel like she has the flu half of the time. It stimulates white cell growth in the bone marrow and that causes her lower back and pelvic bone to ache because that's the largest area for bone marrow production.
She had a check-up consultation with the oncology doctor last week at her treatment and after he examined her he could find no physical signs of the enlarged lymph nodes (they said with lymphoma, the chemo usually kills the cells in the first two treatments, and that the rest are just to make sure it is gone). He said he couldn't even feel any residual swelling or scar tissue. He was pleased enough that he said they may only need to treat with chemo through January instead of March.
He did say that after the chemo, she will need 25 radiation treatments as a follow-up precaution. She will go five days a week for five weeks.
Anyway, a continuing thanks for the prayers and concerns.
Peg
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Glad to hear everythings going along O.K.
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Great News, Peg!
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Tell Amy she is still in our thoughts and prayers.
Check on the 25 radiation treatments, not to go against what the doctor said, but there are numerous studies that fluctuate the needed number of radiation treatments needed after chemo.
Why 25, not 15? My wife, Ruth, during her radiation, was "burned" on her right breast, armpit, and shoulder. Later, she found out that for her type of cancer, after chemo, less radiation would have been OK.
Nothing wrong with asking the doc, where 25 comes from,....
Thanks for the update, we all care about Amy here, and Ruth and I are keeping her in our prayers.
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Tell Amy she is still in our thoughts and prayers.
Check on the 25 radiation treatments, not to go against what the doctor said, but there are numerous studies that fluctuate the needed number of radiation treatments needed after chemo.
Why 25, not 15? My wife, Ruth, during her radiation, was "burned" on her right breast, armpit, and shoulder. Later, she found out that for her type of cancer, after chemo, less radiation would have been OK.
Nothing wrong with asking the doc, where 25 comes from,....
Thanks for the update, we all care about Amy here, and Ruth and I are keeping her in our prayers.
Thanks....we did ask about the number.
He said it will be lower doses over a longer period. He said a stretched out duration with lower dosages sometimes works better, with fewer side effects. He also said that number may be reduced pending a PET scan after chemo to see where we stand. The 25 was a 'best guess' considering that we are still months away from it.
We'll know more later on, but I was planning on discussing it further and in more detail with both doctors when that time comes.
Peg
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That is great news Peg. I like the good news. Y'all keep your spirits up and tell Mrs. Peg our prayers are with the both of you. Thank you for the update!
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I'm new to this board, and just found this forum. Peg, you and Amy are indeed in my prayers.
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Well, guys, first off, thanks for the continued prayers for Amy. Her treatments are going as scheduled and she had #7 last week and is over the half-way hump (as she says). The chemo is starting to wear her down more and more after each treatment and it takes longer and longer after each one for her to get back up and going. But, she is stubborn and is persevering.
The old saying about when it rains it pours........
I didn't want to start another separate thread for this, but I would like to ask those keeping up with this to add my uncle (my dad's brother) Jack Goins to your prayers as well. We found out yesterday that he has an approximately 2cm tumor in his brain. He also has swollen lymph nodes. Further tests are needed to determine the best course of action.
I've always been close to him and he has been as much of an influence in my life as my father and with all we've been going through with Amy, this was just another kick in the gut to the family.
He is in good spirits and optimistic.
I'm not singing a sad song, just needed to get it off my chest.....and this place is where I've become comfortable with doing that.
Thanks all,
Chuck
(Peg)
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Amen Chuck, Jack is added to the list, great conversion the other day, I really enjoyed it. Unlike M58 thought we needed a Texas to Minnesota translator, no trouble between Georgia and Texas on the phone, at least not on the Texas end.
God Bless
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Amen Chuck, Jack is added to the list, great conversion the other day, I really enjoyed it. Unlike M58 thought we needed a Texas to Minnesota translator, no trouble between Georgia and Texas on the phone, at least not on the Texas end.
God Bless
Thanks, it was a great conversation....and absolutely no problem understanding. :D
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Added Uncle Jack to the list. Tell Amy to keep her chin up. May God Bless All Of You.
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God Bless Jack and continued prayers for Amy.
All the best Chuck...
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Chuck, the best to Amy, you, and your uncle.
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Keeping the prayers coming Peg. Tell Amy, my wife, Ruth and I are keeping her in our prayers.
Your Uncle is added.
God Bless.
tw
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Peg, First off ya ain't 'singing a sad song'. You're reaching out to God (with a little help from your friends).
Second, if ya didn't come here and talk to us I'd still find out somehow and then I'd have to come kick yer butt for not lettin' us help! ;)
Uncle Jack is on the list, as is all of my family here.
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Added your uncle to my list and continuing prayers for Amy and your family.
+1 to what Haz said..
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Peg - Glad to hear Amy's still fighting the good fight. My prayers are still coming your way for her, and now I've added Uncle Jack, too.
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You Guys are all on my list.
(the good one, I have another one I'm keeping to, kind of like Santa, only in this case it's the BAD boys and Girls who are going to get what they deserve ;D )
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You Guys are all on my list.
(the good one, I have another one I'm keeping too, kind of like Santa, only in this case it's the BAD boys and Girls who are going to get what they deserve ;D )
(http://i657.photobucket.com/albums/uu297/ClarkKent3/th_729a3e49.jpg)
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Haven't posted an update in a while, but some of you have been getting updates on Facebook and such.
Anyway, Amy finished chemo back in January and had to wait 3 weeks to get a PET Scan. The scan was done last Thursday and we hope to get good results in the morning when we go for a consultation.
If you get a spare minute, please say a little prayer for good news on the scan results.
Also, my uncle is not doing well. After having the gamma knife treatment, the doctor said that he destroyed all of the tumor....however, that part of the brain was also destroyed along with it. He has basically lost almost all physical ability and is stuck in a bed. He is showing some minor strength gains but is still too weak to get the chemo he needs for the other cancer in his lung.
It's really hard to see a man that was once so strong not be able to do anything.
Thanks everyone,
Peg
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I'm sure Amy and you are really glad that chemo is finally over. Praying for her and your Uncle.
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I will remember you all in my prayers.
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Peg - Prayers coming your way, bud.
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Done and Done!!
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God Bless Amy in her continuing fight and God Bless your Uncle in his Chuck.
All the best...
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As always Peg, as always.
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Thoughts and prayers will continue.
Richard
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Good News so far!!!
The initial consultation with the Radiology Oncologist showed a clear scan. We have another consultation with the chief oncologist in the morning for final plans on the radiation and he has to 'sign off' on the scan results after conferring with the other doctor we saw yesterday. Right now it is looking like 3 weeks of radiation (every day) instead of 5 weeks.
Between Amy and myself, we have been at doctors appointments every morning this week (3 for her and 2 for me).
Thanks one and all for the continuing prayers and well wishes....you guys are the best of the best.
Peg
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Thanks for the update Peg!
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Well, she's all 'marked up' after the CT and radiation treatments will start next Monday. Fifteen treatments (everyday for three weeks) and it will only take about 15 minutes per treatment with minimum side effects.
My uncle had to go to the ER yesterday and was admitted with a heart rate of 180 bpm and an irregular rhythm. They were able to regulate it with meds and he has improved through the day and may get to come home later this evening or in the morning.
Thanks again to all for the continued prayer and support.
Peg
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Well, Amy is done with treatments. She had her last radiation treatment Wednesday and the doctor said things looked very good and she had minimal side effects (very sore throat). So from now on it will be lifeport flushings and routine check-ups every month for a year or so. There will also be another PET Scan in 6 months. Right now she is still run down, and they said she will have to build strength slowly as it will not come back overnight. She gets out of breath quickly because the type of chemo she got really does a number on the pulmonary system.
All in all though, she is in very good shape....thanks to all the prayers and well-wishes from all you guys over the last 8 months. It has been a great 'spirit lifter' knowing that you were all here.
This place has been a big mood lifter for me and has kept me from being depressed.
Please keep my Uncle Jack in mind. The gamma knife treatment back before Christmas helped destroy the brain tumor, but the part of the brain that was destroyed along with it has left him without use of one side of his body. He has good days and bad, but on the whole, his condition has not improved much since December and I fear he has given up.
Thanks,
Chuck & Amy
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Peg, thanks for the update. Prayers will continue and your Uncle Jack will be added.
God Bless,
Richard
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Our prayers and wishes for continued forward progress.
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Peg, Glad to hear that things are looking good for Amy! On the flip side, I will continue the prayers for both her and Uncle Jack. I hope that he can see some progress and not lose hope.
God Bless.
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Glad to know that your wife is done with treatment. The hard part is over and now all she has to do is get stronger. It will come.
I'll keep you guys in my prayers.
Brett
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Guys,
An update on my Uncle Jack....I am saddened to say that he passed away peacefully around 7:00 Saturday evening. He had went downhill rapidly over the last month and his body was weary from the struggle. He went in his sleep, surrounded by family.
Next to my dad, he was the biggest influence in my life.
He was loved dearly and will be sorely missed.
Thanks to all for your prayers and God bless,
Chuck
(Peg)
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Chuck, sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers will continue for you and your family.
God Bless,
Richard
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Sorry to hear of the lose of your uncle.
My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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Chuck,
Sorry for the loss of your Uncle Jack, God Bless him in his journey.
Continued prayers for Amy and the family..
timmy
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Condolences, Peg. He will be remembered daily by you and those who knew him. He will be honored daily by your actions and the passing on of his values.
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Sorry to hear that Chuck.
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Hey Chuck, I was deep sea fishing and I just got back last night. I'm sorry for your loss. We are all with you! God Bless you all.
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My heartfelt condolences to you and your family Peg. Your Uncle Jack's suffering and pain are over. He has been renewed with God. This week in particular. Easter reminds us of the everlasting life of Christ, and those with Him.
He will always be with you and your family.
God Bless.
Tom W.
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Condolences, Peg. He will be remembered daily by you and those who knew him. He will be honored daily by your actions and the passing on of his values.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family Peg. Your Uncle Jack's suffering and pain are over. He has been renewed with God. This week in particular. Easter reminds us of the everlasting life of Christ, and those with Him.
He will always be with you and your family.
God Bless.
Tom W.
What they said, I don't have anything I could say better than that.
My prayers are with you and your family for your wife's continued improvement.