I don't think the premise of the survey was designed to calibrate Police Officers. That is a profession that has inherent risk and the potential to become very bad, very quickly.
I certainly wouldn't expect any LEO or military, active or not, to discuss any firearm incident. It's not our business, and doesn't apply to this survey.
Tom,
I agree. But I think it helps us private citizens if we share our stories, including the close calls, because, in my experience, it doesn't happen like we think it will. I've posted this one before, but I learned so much from it, I'm going to post it again;
Here's my last encounter.
It was over twenty years ago, I was divorced and living in an upstairs apartment in the city. I shared a common entrance with the young guy downstairs who was, at best, an alcoholic.
Several times he had mentioned to me that someone had been “stealing his stuff”, I didn't think much of it until one night probably around 2:00AM he was pounding on my door saying something about knowing who was stealing his stuff. I got out of bed, pulled on my jeans, stuck my Colt Officer's model in my back pocket, and went to the door. I'm left handed and the door open in with the knob on the right, so as I opened the door, my left arm was behind the door. I opened the door and there he was, with a revolver in his right hand, pointing at the ground. All I could think of was that he thought I was the one stealing his stuff and he was going to shoot me. I pulled the Colt, raising it behind the door, and started stepping back to get the gun around the door. At that point I knew I was going to shoot him. He started raising the gun, but in an odd way, kind of cross body, pointing to his left, then I saw the saddle ring at the base of the grip, it was a pellet gun. With my right hand I grabbed the barrel of the gun and took it away from him. He explained that he wanted me to keep the gun for him so whoever was taking his stuff wouldn't get it. He never saw my gun, I kept it behind the door, so he never knew how close he came to dying, but I'll never forget it.
My point in all of this? We all tend to practice for the direct confrontation, the mugger, the car jacker, right and wrong, black and white. It's been my experience that confrontations are more often gray, and I often read them wrong, but we don't train for that. We pull over to help someone with a flat tire and he walks to the car with a tire iron in his hand and we're conditioned to think “car jacking”, not that his kid put the wrong tire iron in the car and he's mad as hell and wants to show you what his kid did.