OK, so Ogre has decided it is OK to lie, cheat, deceive or otherwise hoodwink your wife in order to buy a gun?
Ogre at one point said if you hear about a 1-ticket raffle - STFU. Instead, we should all MTFU. If we contribute to the household finances, and if finances allow gun purchases without the kids going without winter clothes or only eating once a day, then do it the right way - put gun purchases in the budget and be open about it.
I have not heard a guaranteed way to destroy a marriage or relationship than the crap Ogre spewed in a long, long time.