Strange times require creative solutions.
Seven days ago this afternoon, Thursday May 14th, my Mother-In-Law died. We have been waiting as dementia has taken her over the past years. Ninety-Five years, with most of the last decade in some sort of care facility.
How do you hold a memorable and fitting service for a person who not only volunteered in her church, but served as Church Secretary for 15 years during this crap?
Due to my history as a taxidermist, I pay attention to what funeral homes are doing. I helped my wife's family switch from one funeral home to another that provided live streaming of the service. We moved the service to graveside - Expanded committal/abbreviated full funeral. I knew of some technology that was available through a friend, and asked the funeral director about it. So, we also broadcast the service over low power FM - 1/4 - 1/2 mile range. Those who couldn't make it could watch the service live on Facebook, and it will remain on there for future watching. Those that came stayed in their vehicles at the cemetery and listened on 99.9 on their car radios.
Seven immediate family, a sound tech, two pastors, and two funeral directors under the tent, and about 50 people in their vehicles. That is about what we would have had normally in a church - Outliving your family and friends, and when none of the immediate family lives in the community anymore, will do that to attendance. A friend and former neighbor of ours invited us out to their farm for a meal, and we had a great time.
This COVID crap sucks, but we need to not give in to the hate, pessimism, fear or sorrow. Grab your bootstraps and big boy pants, pull them up, and take on the challenge.