To all, I've medium sized hands or rather the use of only my left hand, with short fingers. Thus the need to clear jams easily. The j frame revolvers in 38, are too much for the hand to take at practice.
I've shot 9mm Glocks and Lugers, but I have to have my friend rack the slide and clear any issues that arise.
I prefer the .380 Walther PPK, same problem.
That is why I mentioned the Tom cat. I was going to mix ball and hollow point in the magazine. First two hp, the rest ball.