Thanks folks...an update.
She's in ICU, out cold, no visitors and on paralytic meds to prevent ANY movement so as not to disturb her lungs. My BIL says that she will be like this for days according to the docs.
I've spoken to my entire remaining family today, two brothers and another sister and made a mental promise to myself to not let a year go by again without telling them I love them!
The last time we all saw each other at the same time was June of '89, my Fathers funeral.....
Hug your wife and kid tonight, call your brother, sister, mother, father, cousin, grandma and grandpa.....call 'em all...
don't wait...