I agree with everything you said except this. From the day I was born, until 1989, I was under the threat of nuclear annihilation in an exchange with the USSR. Reagan didn't defeat them, that was the work of a generation and their own flawed ideology, but recognized a rotten tree when he saw it and knew enough to give it a good kick. That buys him lots of points from me. If it weren't for that, I'd not be so generous.
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Your stupid FQ.
I don't know any kinder way of phrasing it.
During the "Cold War" Nuclear arms were held by 2 sides who used them as bargaining chips in their geopolitical maneuvering while keeping strict control over access to such weapons. We never gave nukes to unstable allies such as Turkey, and by the same token the Russians never gave them to Ho Chi Mihn, even when they deployed the missles to Cuba the remained under strict Soviet control, Castro never had any more say in their use than Willy Brandt had in the use of our nukes in Germany. Both sides cooperated in keeping them away from countries like Libya, Egypt, and Syria.
Neither side planned on direct confrontation as anything but an absolute last resort, both sides, on several occasions, pulled back to avoid direct confrontation between forces of the opposing primaries, ( US & USSR) which would have been the only case that would have lead to a nuke exchange.
The fall of the USSR, meant that restraining influence was removed from half the world. The result is nukes have turned up in the hands of such icons of stability as , Pakistan, Iran, and N Korea.
If that makes you feel safer it explains why you voted for BO.