Apologize, apologize, apologize: This BS is getting old!
The ideal that it is easier to ask forgiveness than to get permission, or in many cases do it right, is not an acceptable way to live your life or act!
Every day some politician, business, organization, husband or wife is publicly begging forgiveness for something that they didn't mean to do, accidentally did, forgot to do, or just plain screwed up. Hey folks, man up and admit you did something because you beliefs and intentions don't mesh with ours. Your hollow meaningless apologies are meaningless!