I worked for Sen. Thom Tillis (NC) for 2 years (before he was a Senator) and don't remember a minute of it.
I got a commendation letter from the Commanding General of USAF Weather Command. I was never assigned to Weather and I haven't foggiest what it was I did for him. But it was dangerous, may have involved hostile fire and such, and he appreciated my service. At least I got the letter and not my wife.
Awkward is having lunch at a secluded little bistro with your girl friend and she invites your wife to join her.
I'm going to get her back though. Next time I'm inviting her husband.