I have to go along with Tom here. He's right down to the bone. The Republicans have to let abortion and religion, among other things, out of their platform. They are going to have to learn from their mistakes of pushing pro life, like the Democrats did about pushing gun control. It's all risk and no reward. Neither has a place in a political platform unless you want to lose elections directly because of it. They need to stop trying to set a moral tone and let people decide for themselves.
Once you try to take choice off the table, it is going to work against you politically. Regardless if it's the choice of owning a gun, or the choice of getting an abortion. The Republicans need to realize that. It took the Democrats up until they had it shoved down their throats after the 1994 elections, and lost both Houses due to reaction by people after the passing of the Assault Weapons Ban by just 2 votes, before they relaxed their unwinnable position on gun control.
The Republicans have now lost 2 major Presidential elections to the biggest idiot ever elected in Presidential history. The dems did it by demonizing the Republicans, and creating a fictitious "War On Women", and make wealth evil and the people who possess it "out of touch" with "normal people". All the Republicans did was feed them all the ammo they needed. Once you convince women that someone is picking on them, regardless if it's imagined or not, you're done for. Romney didn't help with his "47%" remark either. The electorate has shifted in favor of government dependence, rather than self reliance. You will never be able to convince someone to work for something they think they're entitled to. Again, regardless if it's bull$h!t or not. They believe it, and that's all that matters. The Republicans have a lot of work to do. If it wasn't for the self reliant rural counties in this country, they would have lost the House as well.