Just an update, we settled on what we wanted. We didn't quite end up with the compact.
I think you made a good choice. One of the biggest issues with the chopped 1911's is reliability. Not just "good" reliability, but the kind you are willing to stake your life on. It just isn't there with a lot of these Mini 1911's. Part of the reason is because of the lack of mass of the slide itself. Because of that lack of weight they are forced to run the slide velocity extremely high to get them to function reliably. The result can be a very finicky feeding weapon, and one that is very ammunition picky. Neither of which are good traits in a carry weapon, that has to function perfectly every time you pull the trigger. In short the 1911 was not very well designed with miniaturization in mind.
With all that said, Springfield makes about the best attempt at these type of pistols, as far as reliability. Their Micro line is about as good as it gets. The other problem with these guns is short service life due to the increased slide velocity. Especially in the alloy framed models. The guns basically beat themselves to death much quicker than a full sized 1911. As time passes these problems are being addressed better, but for a Mini style carry gun Glocks are a much better option. For some reason they don't suffer the reliability issues the chopped 1911's do, or the limited service life. The Mini Glocks shoot as well, and last every bit as long as their full sized counterparts. They also cost about 50% less.