I use the adapter to fill those bottles for a small propane heater that I use in the winter. I do not vent them at all either. I freeze the bottle overnight, and make sure the 20# bottle is warm too (as in do not leave outside at 30 below). I invert the 20# tank and wait till it stops filling (slight hissing sound). I do weigh them, and I usually am right at or just below a 1# fill.
With the seals and all that, I will only fill a single bottle 10 times. A precaution on my end.