He should keep trying if that is what he wants to do. Has he considered SeaBees? If he's already working construction and if he doesn't mind it...(Go Navy)
Not making light of the situation, but I'm glad I joined before they had a "disorder" named for being a PITA
Sometimes I think they are trying to make everybody have a mental condition.
Really not all that funny. A French philosopher named Michael Foucault wrote a book called "Discipline and Punish'. The summary was that in modern society power is maintained by defining the desired behavior as being "normal" and those that don't fit in are defined by "experts" as being delinquent, diseased or deviant. He proved his point by writing histories of prisons, asylums, schools and of sexuality. These were areas where the "normal" and "deviant" were defined and policed. Be a stubborn kid? We have a classification for you, one that will brand you and delegitimize you, and by doing so strengthen the ones in charge. Its scary stuff, but it rings very true. Its social control that operates through classification and internal policing. We define our nature by trying to force ourselves into the "normal" mode. In essence we become our own jailers. All too true.

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