Good debate here... and this is something we should all have thought about before carrying a gun.
Solus, I have a question about your statement quoted above. Since I don't know your personal or family situation, please forgive me if this question doesn't apply. You may be willing to risk your life for a stranger but what about your wife, kids, grandkids, friends, and everyone else whose lives are touched by your being here on this earth? Are you also willing to risk their pain, sorrow, and grief for the stranger?
I'm not judging your position - I just wonder if you considered the "ripple effect" of your choice.
I do understand the point of the question and have considered it myself. I am divorced with no children, so I am responsible to myself and my conscience.
But I do recall a news event I saw. It was about a accident where a passenger car collided with a tanker truck.
The occupants of both vehicles were freed except for a 5 year old girl trapped in the car under the truck. The tank was leaking and had caught on fire and was spreading towards the car.
A fire department was working the accident and they had several men at the car working to free the girl. The fire was spreading and growing and got close enough to the car that the chief called the men out. All but one went. He remained to stay with the girl.
The firemen focused all the hoses on the pair under the truck and it exploded. Both the fireman and the girl survived unharmed by the fire.
Afterwards the fireman gave a statement. He was married and had a family. He said that he also had a little girl about the same age as the girl trapped. He said he had thought of his family loosing him, but the girl was so frightened, he just could not leave her to face death, and likely die, alone. He said he had hopped that if he daughter was ever in the same situation, that someone would be there to be with her.
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I know it isn't the same situation, but his concerns about his family were the same. He decided to risk his family loosing him to do what he felt was the right thing to do.
Maybe if he didn't have a family, a little girl about that age, he might have been more prone to leave the girl alone and withdraw when the call to do so came.
In any case, there is more at work than just the risk of your family loosing you involved in all of this.
And as far as being a hero goes, it might be said that the fireman took the easy way...he stayed with the girl because his emotions overwhelmed him when he should have be strong enough to leave and honor his duty to his family.
My intent is not to blame someone for their choice, but just to have those choices considered ......in more depth than most non-compulsive folks would care to.
