I think that scouting, as much as building civic and personal responsibility, gives a boy a chance to ask some questions of himself.
(And while he's young enough to start working on the answers before the questions bite him in the butt. I know. Different question..)
I was just young enough when I joined to give it a shot before I got too old. I quit when my daddy died. I had just made Star. The personal stuff aside, having made star was the first thing that I remember making me think that I could accomplish something. While the attempt was always expected by the older boys on the troop, it was made clear that the choice was always my own.
It was the first time I was asked from within myself..
Mandatory? No.. Opportunity? Yes..
I think scouting is good for a boy, but I don't know how it gels with the kinds of trouble that boys face with middle & high school today.. Even the idea of the opportunity of a wholesome life as a kid seems like a myth if I try to look at it from the view of a boy today..
Back in the latter half of the 80s, I saw a bumper sticker that was stuck on the mail clerks pick up truck. It said "Remember the days when sex was safe and motorcycles were dangerous?" I never forgot that because it was funny, and it was sadly true.
25 years later, would any of us not long for the relative harmlessness of the times of Reagans last few years in office?
Eagle should be available to try for, but not "mandatory". Starting a boy early enough is the purview of the father..
.02 worth..