When I lived in Lake Havasu City back in the 90's, my next door neighbor was married to what seemed like a nice woman with 2 kids. She got a job with the police dept. there, and right away started having an affair with a detective on the force. She basically told him she was leaving him. He was quite devastated by all of it.
What they, (LHC Police), did to him was unbelievable. This guy did nothing violent. Not even raise his voice.....Ever. They showed up at his door at midnight and took him down to the station over insane "violations". They would pull him over every time they saw him driving in town. Trying all the while to provoke him to do something violent so they could be all over him. The cops, District Attorney, judges in that town were all glued together in this conglomeration of $h!t. The poor guy had a hard time even getting a lawyer to take his case because the cops are so feared there.
He wound up getting his ass totally handed to him in the divorce. The poor guy never stood a chance in hell of a fair settlement. Looking back, there is no way in hell I could have kept my cool the way he did through all of that organized insanity. This is commonplace in many small town police departments. And all of it is getting worse, not better.