Timothy and Vince,
Thank you for the kind words about LCR. However that's going the wrong direction. She really wants more capacity.
As for operating the slide:
Miss Kitty had no trouble at the range with the G17. But even if she couldn't does she really need to? Yes, I understand to be well trained and versed would desireable. However, the given situation is that her gun is in a lockbox by her bed. Fully loaded, round in chamber and no manual safety, assuming she has a typical striker fired gun, all she needs to be able to do is point and shoot.
Even though she does enjoy shooting when she does go to the range, it's not her passion. She's not going to spend the time necessary to be proficient with the manual of arms. Don't mistake that however for not being able to shoot. She downed 5 plates in a row at 12yds last week with the Bulldog using SD ammo.
On the other hand, I keep hoping if she finds a gun she really enjoys shooting she might develop more interest. And, yes, she's fired many a .22lr but that doesn't spark her interest.