I'm a little late to this thread but I would offer a piece of advice. DO NOT use your reloads when you carry or even for home SD. Keep them for the range. You are just begging for legal trouble otherwise. An anti-gun prosecutor or a plantiffs attorney can paint you to be some sort of blood thirsty gunfighter type who isn't satisfied with commercial ammo, but has to reload his own "killer" bullets. Its stupid, it sucks, but its life. Buy a box of good factory SD rounds (no matter the cost) and carry those. Just my .02.
FQ13 who believes strongly in CYA insurance