Something that I have found that is superior to baby wipes are make-up remover wipes. Same concept but seem to remove grease and hardcore dirt better than your typical baby wipe. Learned that from removing camo face paint. Also, you were talking about women. I have about a half dozen tampons in my BOB, both for their intended use, and they make great little trauma bandages due to their ability to soak up alot of blood.
I know I'm going to catch hell for this info, but it works, and I'd rather sacrifice a little dignity than too many pints of blood.