Anthony Zinni's book was "The Sling and the Stone", He spends most of the book pushing the benefits of "Engagement" and what he refers to as "4th Generation Warfare" While I believe the concepts do have a place in the tool box of international relations they are no more an all encompassing answer than Von Clausewitz, who's theories did not REALLY stand up to even all the events of his own time, (if you REALLY want to know how to fight a war ignore him and read either Musashi's "Book of 5 Rings" or the more readable "Art of War" by Sun Tzu ")
Zinni's idea that "us common people" cannot understand victory is a load of crap he foisted on the War College to get his star.
Granted it may be difficult for the WWII "total war" generation to understand limited wars for limited objectives, but there is nothing complex about "We want the North Koreans OUT of South Korea", nor do you need to know the secret Annapolis handshake to understand "We want the Iraqi's out of Kuwait". His theory to that effect is nothing more than a justification for fuzzy and lazy thinking at the command level.
There are some inaccuracies in your comments about the Pacific war,
First off, other than positioning Dewey at Hong Kong TR had nothing to do with the seizure of the Philippines, at that time he had resigned as Under Secretary of the Navy to join the Army where he served in Cuba.
The President who WAS in office (McKinley I think) did the Philippines a favor by declaring the Protectorate since there were warships of several European Nations in Manila Harbor just waiting to pounce on a juicy colony, including a German fleet that was larger than Dewey's, (If you want to know how THAT would have worked out look into the history of German East Africa)
TR did NOT share the European disdain for the Asian, in fact he was quite taken with Japanese and Chinese culture and was in fact a student of the martial arts. Remember, He got his Peace prize for convincing the Russians to accept Japans terms, not the other way around.
The objective of the Pacific expansion was not as has been falsely claimed, conquest and Empire, it was the opening of markets, and the establishment of Coaling stations to service the fleet protecting our trade, we had far more resistance and hostility from the British, Germans and French than we ever did from the locals.
Lastly, the embargo on scrap metal and later oil to Japan were not put in place because FDR got up on the wrong side of the bed. They were , like Iraq and Serbia, another noteworthy examples of economic sanctions being used ineffectually to control
a militaristic Government, all that was required was for Japan to withdraw their invasion force from Manchuria.
So, all that being said, I firmly believe that the war against Japan was most definitely a "Just" defensive war.