1911 Junkie, please accept my prayer, as I ask God to do as well, Your sit rep, is taxing, not knowing how things play from now on, but know you have support from us here, had it happen to me, and it was a life changer for a long time, How does a woman and a man live together, opposites for a given time, and still remain happy? In my instance, I had to decide, what is my relationship worth, and what am I willing to do to make it work, and that meant in my situation, who is wrong or right, and does it matter? Sometimes it might not matter, you and the other are not going to reconcile. If you can and still care, do it, if not then get a good lawyer, and be ready for the battle.
But, if you love her, still, after being confronted, get a mediator, and decide your differences, and see if you can come to terms.
My wife and I, did come to terms, and have been married for 29 years, she is now permanently disabled due to west nile virus, I could say I wish I had just let her leave many years ago, and I wish was in the past, but I have loved her all these years, now I am her keeper, and I don't regret it, although it is very hard.
No good answer Bro. But do take into consideration, your life with this woman, what is it worth to keep on with her, what are the objections to getting along? Infidelity, on either side of course is just cause, hard situations, like in my case, not so much, and we also take care of her 80 yr old parents that have more problems day to day, that I have come to grips with, I could be vain and leave, but will not, they have treated and loved me well these last 30 years, how can I not help them?
Not going to tell you what to do, just ask you to decide if the relationship, in your opinion is worth working for, it was in mine.
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