TAB, you and the doc are in our thoughts and prayers. Be there for each other and know that God has a plan for you. I can't begin to imagine the range of emotions you have been going through, and are continuing to experience. Take care of her and of yourself. We may bust your chops around here frequently, but we are truly one big dysfunctional family, and when one of us is hurting, all are hurting.
Please keep us posted, my friend. May God provide you comfort and strength in this difficult time.
Tom