Uh....What? 
Do you have some sort of guilt complex or something you haven't dealt with yet?
Not a guilt complex. Just a lack of understanding. Honestly, its not so much about claiming moral superiority (except in regards to the self righteous whiners who paint themselves as victims part). Thing is, that cuts across the spectrum. Everyone from gays, to conservatives to blacks, to the KKK, to women all pull the victim card. I call BS and say HTFU to all of them. Where I plead ignorance is the anti-gay thing. I just don't get it. I'd never had an out of the closet gay classmate until I got to college. I was straight, a virgin, and hell bent on fixing that the minute my dad left. I was a basic middle class suburban redneck. My roomate though was the son of Dutch diplomats who spent his life between Holland and Indonesia. He was total Euro-trash, looked like he'd escaped from "Sprockets" on SNL, wore nothing but black, put up posters of Grace Jones, listened to experimental classical music and made money (I swear to God) as a "hair model". When he wasn't doing that, he made cash as a pianist and he was scary (as in turned down a slot at Julliard to get a real degree) good. He could not have been more gay if he tried to be.
Thing is though, we got along just fine. He was all about art, fashion and cutting edge classical music and kissed people on the cheek (just once with me, before we discussed that). Me, I was a redneck/ROTC/classic rock and country and folk guy. After we both agreed to wear headphones for our music, we were good roomates. He tolerated my girlfriend, I tolerated his boyfriends and even though we could not have been more different the year passed without a single argument (except about when his tarantula got loose, but that sort of thing just happens and I was going to break up with her anyway

). I guess the point of all this is to make this simple point. I'd never met, much less been in close proximity to a gay guy before. The first one I run up against is my first ever roommate (only child) and could not have been more different than me. Guess what? Despite living in close quarters with me for a year, it was never a problem. If I can deal with it, why can't everyone else? It would have been the same if he'd been black or a muslim or for that matter a woman. You just take people as they come and move on.
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