Find yourself 15 miles off shore in 10 foot seas, or in a Cessna over the Cascades in a thunderstorm. You ever want to realize how inadequate man made tools are to the force of nature? Try dropping 5 feet off the top of a 12 foot wave in a 24' boat, or taking a 15 foot drop due to turbulence in a Cessna. You learn three things.
Been there, done that, went back for seconds thank you.
Took an AVR (63ft PT boat) from Oakland to Ensenada and back and blew an oil line off Big Sur. Limped to Moro Bay and headed back out the next day. Then hit a wave that dismounted the generator and blew the bridge windows out in almost the same place. That was high school.
Was on an aircraft carrier skirting the edge of a hurricane a couple years later. Luckily only white water over the bow that trip.
Flew 1500 hours, over 700 from a carrier, in Navy aircraft in and around thunderstorms and other crappy weather, some of them blue water at night. No divert, you either get it on the postage stamp or you swim. Flaps locked and landing hot were almost non-events after a while. Shoulders hurt anyway. Damn near ejected, low and slow in Fallon when a C-130 tried to tip us over on take off.
I'd do it again in a heartbeat, not because I'm particularly brave, or stupid, but because I felt ALIVE!!!!!
There are two types of pilots. Those that HAVE crashed and those that WILL.