You can always try the patented Michael Bane Hammer-To-The-Foot Recoil Cure — borrow a .454 Ruger Alaskan, load it with Buffalo Bore hunting loads, fire 2 rounds, wrap shooting hand in Ben-Gay strips, wait 2 weeks and reshoot the .44 Magum. Miraculously, recoil will be reduced...sort of...
Michael B