Welcome aboard Siggy. If you like to travel, there are folks here who will, I'm sure, advise you well. You have already done good research. But for basics, you need look no further than the NRA web site, training and education section, to locate NRA certified instructors in your neck of the woods, who can provide good, sound, local training to start both of you off on a lifetime of enjoyment (and empowerment) with the shooting sports and self defense. Basic pistol and rifle classes, which include range time shooting, are the foundation for all the advanced development you may desire.
No, I don't work for the NRA, but many of us here are trained, certified and our interests protected by them. If you are near central NC, I may see you in class one day. Good shooting, Mac.