M58,
I respect what the Patriot Guard does, I think you guys are awesome for passing on the condolences of all Veterans to grieving families that we as individuals may never even hear of. My posts have been mostly in jest, however there is a solid grain of truth in the jest.
Dr. Martin Luther King worked for Civil rights through peaceful protest, sort of.
When he planned a march he knew that there was a high probability that they would meet with violence along the way.
Also, the "Peaceful protests" benefited from the associated violence of groups like the original Black Panther Party, every march, every speech, carried the implied threat "You can deal with us in the Courts, or you can deal with them in the streets."
I'd be very shocked if you don't know anyone with HIV/AIDS. Lots of people do a very good job of hiding it.
I'm not acquainted with any one who is openly Gay. I have 2 cousins who are but I have not seen either of them in years