Thanks for all the tips. I decided to stick with the Ruger. We used the IDPA target and I have a box of clays, so I spread out a half dozen or so on the banked backdrop. What I failed to mention was my Ruger is set up with a red dot sight. That might not be my first choice for a new shooter, but this lady really liked it.
When I tested her eye dominance I discovered she is right-handed, but left eye dominant. So, I had her keep both eyes open, but turn her head just ever so slightly to the right so she was looking at the sight square on with her left eye. Worked for her real well.
She was very attentive indoors to my safety instruction. She got her copy of the 4 Rules and I emailed it to her home email address as well. We discussed each rule and the implications and how it is often misunderstood. I told her she won't watch the cop shows the same any more now that she will be seeing many rules broken all the time! We dry fired the pistol several times. I emphasized the proper way to do a press check and then we went to the range in my back yard. I loaded the first magazine. She wanted to watch me shoot first to see the recoil and hear the report. We stood about 3 good paces from the target. After a couple of shots, she was up on the line.
She shot at the cardboard target with that first magazine and grouped pretty darn well. Then, she moved over to the clays. Dead on! She shot them to pieces and they really flew apart. Cool! Thanks for this idea. Then, she moved back to the cardboard and put several magazines in a half-fist-sized grouping with many holes touching. Darn she was really having fun! It was cold out so we stopped after 100 rounds. I shot the first two rounds only!
Folks, we have a new happy shooter in our midst!
When we went back indoors, I showed her a few more pistols, including the J-frame. I told her the next time she visited we could shoot something else if she wished. I bet she will opt for the Ruger. It is a great feeling to watch someone enjoy shooting for the very first time. Thanks for all your suggestions.