We had a situation in a neighboring county back in the late 70's. A judge's son was always in trouble. The Sheriff's department and police department would do the "deliver the kid to mom and dad and talk to the family" show. However this didn't work, so the judge begged them to crack down hard.
As you can imagine, the departments hated cracking down on a judge's son. But crack down they did. Now a new problem started. Other judges would not sentence the son. All he got was a slap on the wrist and released. Between the original LE treatment that never seemed to get as tough as it should, and the judges doing "daddy" what they thought were favors the kid got worse and worse.
Finally the judge wrote a letter to all LE and judge in the area. The letter did not just go to the departments or courthouse. It went to ever individual. The judge explained what his son was like, what had been done over the years and what it was creating. He closed by begging everyone to treat his son like the scumbag he was, and to ignore all family ties.
The first Saturday after the letter went out the kid was in trouble. He was booked, stripped, searched, "showered," and put in a holding cell. Monday morning he was taken to court and charged. Following his first hearing his parents refused to post bail, and the kid fell up three flights of stairs on his way to a cell. He got a public defender and agreed to plead guilty thinking of the past. Oooooooooooooooooooops! He was charged to six months in the general population at a state facility - a not nice state facility.
Last I heard the kid was not a saint, but he was staying out of trouble.
Sometimes it is the parent, and sometimes it is everyone else trying to be nice. Either way it is nothing but the wrong thing to do!