I blame the feminist movement. Don't get me wrong, I am all for gender equality. However there have been some unintended consequences. One of the biggest is the feminizing of men. As a man, in this day and age, if you stand up for your beliefs, and refuse to be subservient to a woman, then you are labeled a caveman. John Wayne, and George Patton could never rise to be examples of "REAL" men these days. Which is a big part of the reason we are in the fix we are in. Men are afraid to stand up. Because someone might call you insensitive.