Liked all your advice.
You did mention one point that concerned me very much and also offered a workable solution which did not occur to me.
I would be very reluctant to handle my loaded weapon in that situation and I'd always thought I'd ask the officer if to remove it.
Your suggestion of asking to remove it in it's holster is very good and is a suggestion I will follow.....as I follow the rest already.
I have had three instances where I needed to inform a police officer I was licensed and carrying.
One where I was rear ended in a very slow speed accident and before we could even agree to go our own way with no damage done, a patrol car happened on us and the officer approached us. I informed me, he said thanks, and every thing proceeded normally.
Another time, I was in the process of purchasing a home for rehab and was meeting my contractor at the house. The house had been empty for over 3 years. I arrived early, parked my car towards the back of the drive way and sat on the porch steps to wait.
I saw a car leave the house across the street and then return from the other direction, as iff they just drove around the block.
Within a few minutes a police car arrived and the officer asked what I was doing there. Told him I was licensed and carrying and my situation with the house. He asked to see my permit but not the gun and things proceeded normally after that. Seems they had received a call that a 'homeless' person was hanging around the house....I guess I need to get a hair cut and trim my beard, but I take a perverse pride in having the police called on me within the first 15 minutes of visiting my new home

Last time was a speeding stop for 50 in a 35 zone. Officer approached and I informed him I was licensed and carrying. He said thanks, then noted I had an NRA sticker on my bumper and told me to slow down in the future and have a nice day. Got lucky with the right cop on that one. One thing I noticed is that, when I told him I was carrying is backed off a few steps and spoke to me from there with his hand near his gun. Obviously he gave me the benefit of the doubt about being an upstanding gun owner, but wasn't about to risk is life on that evaluation.