I have to say, I really don't care what other men do with each other. It's certainly NO FUN to look at, but I could care less. I am perfectly happy looking at women embracing men or other women because that's what I like, so it's a bit of a moot point.
I know quite a number of gay folks because they like the seashore and that's where I live. For the most part they're pretty easy to deal with- often better than straight people. They are often funny, they've got money to spend, and they (for the most part) seem to enjoy life a lot. Having said that, I have noticed that gay men just can't let it rest. In the company of heterosexuals there is usually some sexual banter- with guys there's joking about women, etc. But if you are around gay guys and they feel comfortable, EVERYTHING anyone says seems to turn into an opportunity for another gay comment or joke. They really push the edge and are way more "inyour face" with their preferences than heteros or even lesbians.
Just an observation, since I am a lesbian myself.