Comon, man, that's a tough question. I think that we should not draft women unless we're down to no guys left... I also know that if one of my kids was being shortchanged in any way you did NOT want to be in my wife's way. So if you do the math women have one more consideration...rape. Yeah bad things can happen to male POWs but you can pretty much count on the rape of a captured female combatant.
Based on that, if women want to serve, can pass through the training, and can kick ass...let them There are certainly enough men who can't cut it, so if a woman wants it..let her go.
All that said, I feel a certain protectiveness toward... hell, even that arm wrestling woman in the earlier post, although I'd have to consider the consequeces....I'd protect her till she could carry me to safety....