I really don't know where to begin. Have finally considered purchasing a pistol to carry in my vehicle mainly due to my new job. Have been doing a lot of reading and talking with my best friend who seems well-informed on the subject and owns an older Beretta semi-automatic & his wife has a Taurus snub-nose .38 revolver she loves. I know it comes down to how you intend to use the gun, (home defense & carry in the truck), revolver or semi-automatic, caliber, and subjectively, how the gun feels in your hand. The choices & manufacturers are mind-boggling. I do need to get to a firing range and rent several different types & calibers to "test drive," but may be impossible to test shoot the gun that seems to be a good fit. The weapon I finally choose is not one I'm going to practice shooting every weekend or enter competitions, but I do plan on practicing often enough to become proficient in using the gun & learning what ammo works best & provides the best results. Price is also a consideration as I'm not in a position to pay $1,000+ for the "ultimate premium" gun. I'm leaning towards a semi-automatic and have looked at various Taurus, Kimber, Armalite brands & know there are many, many more to consider. Ease of use and reliability are important too. I suppose one should take age into consideration. I'm in my mid-50's, in decent shape, still have respectable reflexes. I have recently read some interesting info on "The Judge" from Taurus, & having a .410 shotgun shell in a handgun sounds intriguing, especially for defense purposes, but wonder about recoil issues, especially with the light-weight version. In any event, I feel like I'm suffering from information overload & would appreciate anyone who can help put all of this in perspective & offer some sense of direction. Many thanks.
Dan