I have the S&W 642, which is basically the same gun, except for hammer configuration. I was somewhat concerned, like you, about recoil considering the size and weight of the gun (plus my ham hands). You need not worry about it though, IMO, the recoil is very manageable even for quick follow up shots. I use mine as a CC piece during warmer months, which speaks volumes considering I count on it to save my life in a worst case scenario. Buy it with confidence, you won't be sorry.
Swoop