Warhawke, went through the same thing some years back, moved to ND from the Chicago region. Condolences, it ain't easy and everything may seem a bit upside down for a while, but you are getting your life back on track. Trust me, this can be a good first step.
If you find yourself driving through Fargo on I-94, stop by and I'll take you to the range or down for a beer. If you're interested, PM me and I'll get you my phone number.
Hang in there buddy, and don't let this get you down. Just watch out for the wolves in winter in Missoula!!