Yeah, that sucks, too bad. I look at my 2 boys and wonder the same thing. They both shoot, but each has their own set of issues.
Cut across MN, we'll hang for a day and shoot, good range SW of Fargo about 10 miles, another 10 miles west of me in Casselton.
Nice bar/restaurant at the south end of town here too. You can rant all you want, but I won't clean your guns. Well, OK, maybe 1 or 2.