If you listen most people will expose their real side to you. If they don't you can get most to do it if you poke, or worship them. Everyone has a trigger that will cause them to open up either out of pride or anger. Mr. Obama suffers from a huge EGO!!! Give him a chance and he will let you know how important and strong he is. Can't wait till his masters (racial reference intended, because I believe that is the way his contributers (buyers) will treat him) start running his Office for him.