I used buffers in my competition guns when I was seriously competing, but keep in mind that I replaced them on a regular basis (as I did all my springs, including magazine springs). At tens of thousands of rounds a year everything wears out.
NONE of my "real" 1911s have buffers in them. When I was running matches, I saw buffer failures — either FTF as described by Rob or, in one case, a broken buffer that managed to lock the gun up — on a regular basis.
If you manage to shoot enough rounds to wear out the frame from battering, good on you!
Michael B