so i've been kicking the dust for to long now and have decided that i need to get an AR, now i know this is gonna open a can of worms, but i dont know anything about these sorts of things. i know i want it for recreational use as well as defense in situations that may require it. i know i want it in .223 but that about it. i dont like the ak platforms and i dont like the sks platforms. what should i be looking at? brands? guns? and gear?
You don't say where you live, that could limit your options.
With home defense, you want a shorter barreled rifle, collapsible stock too I would think. The classic Viet Nam era rifle is called the A1, fixed stock, longer barrel, carry handle. Many of us use the modern look-alike to what''s called the M4 carbine with shorter barrel, collapsible stock, no carry handle, and lots of mounting rails for lights, lasers, optics, etc.
Beyond that is your preference, try 'em out at the local gun shop to see what's what. All brands are good - as most commentators say these days, companies don't dare put crap on the market, word-of-mouth on the internet will bring the crap to light very fast and sales will die. Price, as Thanos noted, is the primary determinant for the same basic rifle - colts are pricey, DPMS and Stag tend not to be. Stag makes the S&W M&P which is probably 25% more than the same thing from Stag (or used to be, have not compared prices lately)
Oh, one more thing, buy lots and lots of standard capacity (30-round) magazines, like those from Midway, Brownell's or Magpul.
Oh, and Thanos, post gun porn (pictures of your rifle). Goes for you too Galeth005 - it is expected when touting your own goodies.
And welcome to the site, both of you.