As much as I hate to do this............................... 
Never regret presenting boths sides of a story, M'ette.
Even though it might "damage" your position on the issue, it is taking the "High Road" and it keeps us all honest.
If we fall into the "liberal" habit of distorting the truth or outright lying, we will have lost more than the argument.
If we fall into the habit of believing these deceptions, we will join the ranks of mindless believers like those who have elected this president.
It will not hurt us to be armed with all the facts.
As to Obama's actions, if we allow that he could not be personally present for the security reasons given, a tele-presence could have been arranged where he could express his regrets and support...if they exist.
It might have been costly, but well within the budget of this extravaganza and was due the most important group of American Heroes.
We will see if he attempts amends and will determine if they are sincere.
Hell, as an after thought, this Ball should be sponsored by the President and not the American Legion and the Medal of Honor holders should be the Guests of Honor.