It's interesting talking to women at work who are purchasing a handgun for personal carry and most just want a carry option with a purse or handbag of some sort. Regardless of the presentation it's all about practice, practice practice. I can tell you as a woman at times it's very trying to get practice time at the range. Seems like every man within a 50ft. radius wants to tell you what you should be doing. It's an overload of information to say the least.
Growing up I shot rifles and didn't have much experience with handguns. I wasn't comfortable with them and frankly they scared the heck out of me. Seemed too easy to make a mistake with a handgun versus a long gun. So when I bought my first handgun last year, it was quite a surprise to my hubby. Well I don't know if it was the handgun (M&P 9) I purchased or the fact that I actually brought home a handgun and not a rifle.
Off to the range we went, and whew what an eye opening experience that was. Between the instruction on how to safely operate the gun, hold the gun, stance, trigger pull, acquiring target, position of my arms, pulling it out of the holster etc etc etc it was just information overload. Finally after about 15 or 20 minutes hubby walked away mumbling something about "you're not listening to me". But he did say later he "got it" that he was giving me way to much to think about instead of just teaching safe handling and allow me to find out what was comfortable and worked for me.
About 4000 rounds later, I'm safe, confident and comfortable with my gun. It just took hours of practice and still more hours needed until it becomes second nature.
I love seeing women in the store purchasing firearms. Perhaps there will be one less victim of violent crime. Confidence, strength, pride and just an inner peace of mind shouldn't be words exclusively for men.