.45 - Fed HST +P 230 gr in the XD, 230 gr HShok or Hornady 230 gr TAP in the P14 and P12, NiteHawg still trying to find a carry load. Anything in 230 +P is out, makes weird things happen. Standard pressures are supposed to be ok, but I haven't found enough defensive loads to experiment with.
.380 BUG Hornady Crit Defense. Absolutely the most reliable and well behaved round in my LCP. Oddly enough, found quite a bit of it lately.