Miltary service...

[Hazcat]

Hell yeah! Man Cave time!

How about some


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dc86_Weoye0

[TAB]

folsom does not do tours anymore...

[weatherbyman]

marines kicked my ass and I was a changed man lol.

[tt11758]

TAB, I hate to be the one to bring this up, but................does she have a problem with checmical substances, perhaps? 

It's a possibility that she's giving a cry for help that nobody is really hearing.

[blackwolfe]

TAB,  Don't know what to tell you.  This is really sad.  It doesn't sound like she wants to do anything to help herself.  If she is up for it than any branch of the Military that would take her is probably good.  Sounds like there is some background to her behavior and untill she makes the decision to accept that, deal with it, and move on for the better, she will keep behaving as she has.   We here don't know all the details and nuances of her situation and her family situation.   I have friends that work with youth in both the private and public settings and have heard lots of stories.  Is there a chance that she was abused when younger and needs counceling to learn to deal with it?   If there are younger siblings, having her stay may be extremely detrimental for them. 

You love them and would do almost anything for them and they take advantage of and abuse that love. Is there a relative that she can stay with for a change of scenery and pace.   It's a tough thing to do, but mom might just have to put her out for the sanctity of the rest of the family.   She may dissaper into a life on the streets and all the tragedies that come with it or it might make her wake up and straighten her out.
TAB, I wish you, her, and her mom the best.

[Sponsor]

[twyacht]

Tough call keeping her from going completely to the "dark side", If military won't work, how about the Peace Corps?

I haven;t heard what she likes yet. Music? Tattoos?, something,.... there's got to be a way to find some option that she does enjoy, and would be willing to pursue.

I had a time in my life when I did it the "hard way", now looking back, my father was right, and those that offered advice I should have heeded, would have made things easier back when I was younger.

The decisions she makes now will effect her for years to come.  She needs to know that.

Good Luck TAB, don't give up on her.

[TAB]

TAB, I hate to be the one to bring this up, but................does she have a problem with checmical substances, perhaps? 

It's a possibility that she's giving a cry for help that nobody is really hearing.

hair test was clean( I mean nothing, it shocked me)