I have flown the same American Flag in front of my house(s), since 9/11. I bring it in at night, as it is not illuminated, and for foul weather.
Well, she's getting worn, torn, and faded.

There are some tears and rips getting worse, and I need to replace her.

I have been to Boy Scout Ceremonies, Mt. Mourne, NC, Troop 19, with my son, and the troop rounded up old flags for a proper disposal. Once we had a Marine Corps Honor Guard conduct the ceremony. So I know the proper protocols.
I have not done one on my own, and have a question:
Should I take it to the VFW, or local Boy Scout Troop? Or since I am attached to my Flag, take care of it, with all protocols followed myself?
I would follow this order:
http://www.vfwmi.org/us_flag_disposal.htm In August, 2000, at the VFW 101st National Convention in Milwaukee, VFW delegates passed a resolution establishing a U.S. Flag disposal program for Posts to conduct, privately or publicly.
The VFW feels individuals are responsible for maintaining the U.S. Flag in their possession. However, as a public service some VFW Posts have special details assigned for gathering and disposing* of worn national emblems. Some Posts may go further - they make gifts of new flags to groups or provide information on how to order a U.S. Flag from the VFW Emblem and Supply Department.
*SUGGESTED PROCEDURE FOR INDIVIDUALS TO USE IN PRIVATE OR PUBLIC FOR DISPOSING OF A TORN, SOILED, OR BADLY FADED U.S. FLAG.
1. The Flag should be folded in its customary manner. (See current Program Chairman's booklet or VFW ritual.)
2. It is important that the fire be sizeable and of sufficient intensity to ensure complete burning of the Flag.
3. Place the Flag on the fire.
4. The individual (s) can come to attention, salute the Flag, recite the Pledge of Allegiance and have a brief period of silent reflection.
5. After the flag is completely consumed, the fire should then be safely extinguished and the ashes buried.
6. Please make sure you are conforming to local/state fire codes or ordinances.
I would like to do it myself, but there is something about that "Old Flag", that makes me kinda "well-up" when I think about burning her.
She, of course, would be replaced with a New One, but I ask you guys here as I think the Flag means more to
us than others.
Thank you
TW