Thanks for your post, Timothy. It maked drop my second part and jump ahead.
Is there a double standard? No. It's worse. There is racism in the black community itself. Just watch "School Daze" by Spike Lee and you'll see how bad they treat each other. (I can't stand the guy, but if does make a point even though the situation is "ramped up" for a more dramatic movie.)
What's never said though is the changes going on now. I remember two elderly ladies coming to my door talking about the end times (Jahovah's Witnesses) and I smiled at the obvious mistakes they didn't see.
I said, "The worlds better now than it is, you two are an example."
"How is that?" One asked.
"Look at you two." I replied. "You're both ladies in your 80s working together and you're different races." (one was black the other white.) "You two grew up in a time of segregation, fear, and hatred and now you're working together. I'd say the world is getting better."
Not knowing what to say, they left.