Another complication to this whole stupid mugging thing (have I mentioned I have issues with those guys?). I took my mother out to a nice restaraunt last night (SNOB, standing for Slightly North Of Broad, as its at the intersection of Broad and East Bay Streets. I found it funny at least

). Anyway, we both had small plates. One of the cool things about this joint is that you get to choose between appetizers, medium plates and entrees. A great way to budget. Anyway, we came back to the hotel, and I was done for the night. My mon, however, without my knowledge, decided to to get a midnight snack (yes at midnight) at the oyster bar a block over. Now I feel: A: Horrified I wasn't there with her and B: guilty I didn't warn her. I still don't want to ruin her view of the city because she loves it and associates it with my late stepdad who died way too young (70). I don't want to screw up her trip or spoil her memory because I know she would freak out. She's just not geared for violence and doesn't like guns, though she's not an anti. Still, the idea that she went out onto the same streets late at night that those scum bags were on by herself terrifies me, and I feel that I should have warned her. Flip side is its about a year after my stepdad died, and we are in his birthplace seeing his favorite places, and basically having a two person wake. I don't want to screw that up for her, which telling the truth would sure as hell do. Thoughts?
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