when I was 6 or 7 I said a "bad word" in front of my mother. she grabed me, opend my mouth and put tabsico on the back of my tongue. todate I've only said one or 2 bad words infront of her.
Great point TAB, I, as all kids, disagree, got mad, and even argued with my folks, BUT (back than) there was a line in the sand that was never crossed, due to fundamental RESPECT. (and consequences were rendered if you crossed it).
Those times have long gone due to culture and parenting. (Not in all cases, but), parenting has let kids get away with almost anything these days.
Now parents call 911 when their teenage son won't get off the Play Station. (Are you kidding me?) Not in my day, but evident in ours.
I wasn't just punished, I was beaten, and I've been screwed up ever since.
People who don't know when to stop shouldn't beat their kids.
jumbo, I'm sorry, I am not making any mockery or light of a "whoopin" and flat out abuse. Beatings are never a corrective form of discipline, and not what I think this OP's about, or what was previously posted.
Parents, can and sometimes still, go too far, and I've known friends that were subject to that kind of abuse, and it is wrong.
Spankings and beatings are two totally different things. One is parenting, one is criminal.