The advice here and the online tutorials are about all you will need. If the parts are to spec and the upper already assembled, there is nothing to tweak. If not in spec, you'll be frustrated and could end up with an unsafe gun. If this AR absolutely must be perfect and unscratched, realize that putting your first AR together is likely to be a failure, and buy a factory gun.
Go to AR15.com and find and ** print out ** the tutorial on how to put together a lower parts kit and receiver. Watch the Brownell's videos, if you want. They are great, but you shouldn't need to.
Order a complete kit (less lower) that has the options you want. You should be able to spec the items you mentioned. I used Del-Ton for my last build that ended up being my wife's big Christmas present. The upper/barrel/front sight was put together straight, and the M4 ramps matched the barrel and were anodized correctly, not dremeled or cut in afterwards. The Del-Ton LPK just about fell into the S&W lower, it went together so easy. I haven't seen the DSA AR parts, but their FALs are awesome.
If you want your kit right away, verify that the company you buy from has the exact config in stock and not already allocated before ordering. Carlosrod mentioned J&T, and they were really good about this when I was looking for a lightweight barrel (and J&T is Doublestar).
You will want a pin punch or two, a small hammer, a buffer extension wrench, and a long blade flat screwdriver from Midway, your local Ace hardware, or even a pawn shop (buck apiece for tools). Yep, that's it.
The putty knife mentioned is a great choice, and easier than when I used the flat blade screwdriver for the same job.
Tape the receiver for the bolt release pin. I used a big slip-joint/Channellock pliers (with the jaws also taped) to squeeze in the bolt release pin instead of driving it with a punch.
You will need a bench block to safely install the trigger guard roll pin. You can buy the awesomely cool and correct block from Midway, or use a scrap of wood.
I prefer the slotted grip screw so I can use the ever available flat blade screwdriver instead of a Allen wrench that i can never find.
Wrench the receiver extension on and then choose to crank it really hard, Loctite it like RRA, or use the screwdriver to stake it (you paid a buck, who cares?).
Function check.
Fire.