Man or woman, a 22 is definitely the way to start out a new shooter. Low noise and recoil so they can concentrate on the important things like trigger squeeze and sight picture. After that, they can move up to anything they can handle...at their own pace. However, if honey is already accustomed to the mechanics of shooting a handgun, as my wife was, I took her to a local gun show and let her handle all the guns in the show. We were looking at a snub nose revolver. She picked up all the snubbies in the show. Not terribly interested, until she found the one that really fit her hand. She lit up and said, "This is the one." It turned out to be a Ruger SP101. But it could have been anything. The point is, she found the revolver that fit her hand. She shoots very well. As one of the guys said before, let her pick the one that works for her. She will be more likely to carry it and shoot it if it is hers, not one of the ones we picked out for her.